A newspaper popular columnist Sydney J. Harries and friends on the newsstands to buy newspapers, his friend of the newspaper vendors politely said thank, but newspaper vendors have not said a word.
"This poor guy has a bad attitude, right?" Sydney J. Harries has asked his friend.
"He's such a night," a friend said.
"Then why you treat him so polite "Harrison Andean asked him.
Friend replied: "Why did I let him decide my behaviour"
A mature people hold the keys to their happiness, he does not expect others to make him happy, and it can bring joy and happiness of others.
Everybody have their hearts of "the key to happiness," but we are often unaware it was in charge by others.
A woman complained: "I am not happy, because my husband not at home, he travels often." The key to happiness is from her husband.
A mother said: "My child is not obedient, make me very angry!" The key to happiness is from her children.
Men may say: "Boss does not appreciate me, so I depression." The key to happiness is from his boss.
These people have made the same decision; they are allowing others to control his mood. When we allow others control our emotions, we will feel that they are victims of the status of powerless, we become angry and complained that the only option.
We were started to blame others to make us suffering and painful. At this time, we were entrusted to the people around to make us happy.
However, a mature people hold the keys to their happiness, he does not expect others to make him happy, and they can bring joy and happiness of others. His emotional stability, responsible for their own, and he is the kind of enjoy together, rather than pressure.
Where your keys to happiness? Keep it by yourself or others? Is the time to take back!
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